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Couple: 'Our son could die without his own bedroom'


A concerned couple whose son has a life-limiting illness say his life will be constantly put in danger unless the council rehomes them.

Dougie Davis, 30, and his partner Alix, have two children, Oscar, one, and three-year-old Bella. Oscar suffers from cystic fibrosis, a life-limiting disease that affects his internal organs, especially the lungs and digestive system.

Currently, the family lives in a second floor flat in Croxley View where Oscar shares a bedroom with his younger sister. However, his worried parents say he is picking up bugs and illnesses from his sibling, which, coupled with his illness, is putting his life in danger.

The family has applied to Watford Borough Council to be moved to a three-bedroom house so Oscar can have his own room.

They have even won the backing of the Cystic Fibrosis Trust, but have so far had their pleas turned down by council officers.

The council has sent a medical examiner to see Oscar. However, the expert concluded the toddler could just as easily pick up an infection while outside.

Dougie said: "We feel the council thinks they know better about a disease only a specialist can understand.

“If Oscar needs medication I can't go to the GP to get that, I have to go to the specialist at the hospital.

“So, I don't know how the council's examiner can make that call."

The family has been told they do qualify for a ground floor two-bedroom flat with a garden. However, Dougie says that is not enough.

He added: "It is simply the best thing for Oscar to have his own bedroom in our eyes.

"We don't know what to do anymore. We think the council is wrong.”

Mayor of Watford, Dorothy Thornhill said the case highlighted a ”tragedy” - that there is not enough housing to meet every demand in the town.

She said: “I know that housing is a key issue for local people. It's a tragedy that there is not enough affordable housing in the south-east of the country.

“Of course this family wants the best for their children, however, the facts are that there is a short supply of housing in towns like Watford.

“We have 3500 applicants on the housing list, so what we do is prioritise applicants with the highest housing need, and that is what we have done in this particular case.”

She added: “Unfortunately, over many years housing has been under-resourced nationwide, and the supply driven by the planning system, because of high house prices."

Comments(29)

HertsPeter says...
10:20am Thu 2 Jul 09

The need to have his own bedroom is desirable but hardly necessary - the children will eat, bathe, socialise, play in the same areas, so bugs will be picked up there, from the parents, at school, outdoors etc. etc.

Also... Dorothy Thornhill overlooks the main reason for the social housing shortage - the selling off of all the stock in the 1980's without replacemnent housing being built. All the best houses were sold with none of the proceeds reinvested, and what was left was the houses that only the desperate want. Another legacy of the AntiChrist Thatcher.

SadStateOfAffairs says...
10:30am Thu 2 Jul 09

well said HertsPeter. Its very true.

mummytwo says...
10:36am Thu 2 Jul 09

I have a 10 year old girl and a 18 month old baby boy who share a bedroom we have been told that we are in the band D of being moved so not urgent which i feel is rong so their are loads in the same boat and as a nurse i know this child does not NEED his own room

Italy71 says...
10:52am Thu 2 Jul 09

No one wants to see anyone suffering, but going to the press is not going to make them suddenly jump the queue ahead of people who have even greater need. Demand for social housing far outweighs supply across the south east.

Garston Tony says...
11:11am Thu 2 Jul 09

It is a harsh situation that this family is in but a realistic one, the child could pick up a bug or germs anywhere so having his own room would make no real difference and you don’t have to be a medical expert to know that.

Lack of council housing is not just down to right to buy, you could just as easily blame the rise in single young mums immigration and people thinking getting a council house and living off benefits their entire lives is a right and not the safety net its supposed to be. I don’t mind helping people in genuine need but why should I have worked my arse off to support my family whilst my taxes are paying for people that couldn’t keep their knickers on and legs together or who without good reason have never and will never contribute to this country? Its such an easy life that thanks to EU laws no wonder that weve got hundreds of thousands of foreigners in this country and more wanting to get here because they know they can get a free ride like our own slobs off us taxpayers. That’s why we have huge waiting lists and you can thank Blair and his cronies as much as Thatcher for it

Bugger its hot today

little bear says...
11:45am Thu 2 Jul 09

mummytwo wrote:
I have a 10 year old girl and a 18 month old baby boy who share a bedroom we have been told that we are in the band D of being moved so not urgent which i feel is rong so their are loads in the same boat and as a nurse i know this child does not NEED his own room
Nice to see we have such sympathetic, nurse's!....It's ashame that not even the backing of the cystic fibrosis Trust has helped much, after all these people have an understanding and insight into what this families needs are. Still coming from the caring profession you would know that!

mummytwo says...
11:55am Thu 2 Jul 09

mummytwo wrote:
I have a 10 year old girl and a 18 month old baby boy who share a bedroom we have been told that we are in the band D of being moved so not urgent which i feel is rong so their are loads in the same boat and as a nurse i know this child does not NEED his own room
Nice to see we have such sympathetic, nurse's!....It's ashame that not even the backing of the cystic fibrosis Trust has helped much, after all these people have an understanding and insight into what this families needs are. Still coming from the caring profession you would know that!
mummytwo wrote: I have a 10 year old girl and a 18 month old baby boy who share a bedroom we have been told that we are in the band D of being moved so not urgent which i feel is rong so their are loads in the same boat and as a nurse i know this child does not NEED his own room
Nice to see we have such sympathetic, nurse's!....It's ashame that not even the backing of the cystic fibrosis Trust has helped much, after all these people have an understanding and insight into what this families needs are. Still coming from the caring profession you would know that!
I am a very simpatetic nurse thankyou and i do feel for them but also their are many many people that need it more

SadStateOfAffairs says...
12:15pm Thu 2 Jul 09

GarstonTony, VERY WELL SAID! this is so true! And you know what else, people continue to have children just so they can get a bigger house and then 9 tims out of 10, when they've got their house, they miraclousy have money and then they put in their right to buy!!

little bear says...
12:37pm Thu 2 Jul 09

mummytwo wrote:
mummytwo wrote: I have a 10 year old girl and a 18 month old baby boy who share a bedroom we have been told that we are in the band D of being moved so not urgent which i feel is rong so their are loads in the same boat and as a nurse i know this child does not NEED his own room Nice to see we have such sympathetic, nurse's!....It's ashame that not even the backing of the cystic fibrosis Trust has helped much, after all these people have an understanding and insight into what this families needs are. Still coming from the caring profession you would know that!
mummytwo wrote: I have a 10 year old girl and a 18 month old baby boy who share a bedroom we have been told that we are in the band D of being moved so not urgent which i feel is rong so their are loads in the same boat and as a nurse i know this child does not NEED his own room
Nice to see we have such sympathetic, nurse's!....It's ashame that not even the backing of the cystic fibrosis Trust has helped much, after all these people have an understanding and insight into what this families needs are. Still coming from the caring profession you would know that! I am a very simpatetic nurse thankyou and i do feel for them but also their are many many people that need it more
Sympathetic!...Well perhaps all of them should get in the papers!... And the council should allocate the properties to people on a needs basis, and not just give them to people who have just arrived here!

RSIAP says...
1:11pm Thu 2 Jul 09

I bet a pound to a penny old Dougie aint got a job and i will bet his mrs is just out of school.This bloke is a total scrounging waste of space.
Try a novel approach Douglas,my old fruit.......go to work and PROVIDE YOUR family with a home rather than sitting on your fat arris,making more babies.
One more thing,was it not a bit dangerous inviting that smelly,dirty WO photographer round......imagine all those germs,swine flu etc....in fact i think social services need to be called for putting your child in danger knowingly.
Why is it that the families that think up these fairy stories,always seem to be the thick ones?If the house is not up to it,i suggest you give it up and rent privately,that way you get to choose.

SadStateOfAffairs says...
1:20pm Thu 2 Jul 09

RSIAP - LOL, i wondered the same thing! another benefit scrounger trying their luck? They should be lucky they've got a place full stop, plenty of families in worser situations than them!

Nightreader says...
1:44pm Thu 2 Jul 09

If he needs his own room so desparately, why havent the parents taken the little girl in with them?

Garston Tony says...
3:51pm Thu 2 Jul 09

We dont know anything about this family apart from their plight so the name calling is a little unfair even if the chances are the assumptions are correct. If in order to get something the backing of a society is enough as as mummytwo thinks then my wife is willing to start the Gartson Tony Should Never Have to Pay Taxesa gain trust in order to tell the government I must keep 100p of every pound I earn. Do you think that would work? My wife hopes so as we can afford to go on that cruise shes been nagging me about the past couple of months!

Wilkinson says...
7:02pm Thu 2 Jul 09

I'm not sure where i stand on this one. On the one hand i feel for them when i see and hear of vermin from places like Afghanistan (a country that we are supposed to be at war with) coming in and being given whatever they want straight away, and taking from a system they have never paid into. This is simply unfair.

However, i do agree with a lot of the above posts. I think Mr Davis needs to take a lot more of the responsibility for this, work 3 jobs if you have to, to find the money. Unfortunately he is a Thatcher baby who grew up in Blair's Britain, one where people just expect the state to fund them and give them everything as they are too stupid to use contraception. I really feel for the little boy, its a horrible condition, but i doubt the motives of the parents, particularly a mother who cannot spell the name Alex properly!

mnpala says...
7:32pm Thu 2 Jul 09

Its unfair to assume that this couple are scroungers when there's nothing in the article to suggest this. They are going to need a three bedroom house at some point anyway due to having a boy and girl. This illness creates an additional priority, and the charity supports their request. Best of luck to the couple.

steh says...
8:46pm Thu 2 Jul 09

"Currently, the family lives in a second floor flat in Croxley View"
Strange flat that has stairs as in the photograph. Surely they've not exposed him to the germs, bacteria and viruses of someone else's house?!
I'm curious as to the mother's age - she looks about 14 but has a 3 year old.

Nascot says...
8:48pm Thu 2 Jul 09

I have every sympathy for them as far as their son's illness is concerned. But using this to 'blackmail' the Council, absolutely none. I have worked hard for many years to provide my family with a decent home, and my decision on having children has been based on what I can personally provide for and not how many hand-outs I can get from the State. Bet they have a Sky subscription...

Roy Stockdill says...
12:30am Fri 3 Jul 09

So when this little lad goes to school and starts meeting lots of other children and people in a social situation, how then will they deal with his medical problem? Or will he be cocooned in a personalised "tent" for the rest of his life? Does he, in fact, come into contact with people other than his sister now? I suspect he does, which rather seems to destroy the argument that he needs a separate bedroom.

Something simply does not ring true here. I'm afraid I have to agree with those above who think the parents are trying to pull off a scam, using their child and the WO as ammunition.

There used to be a conventional view, i.e. old fashioned to some people, that if you can't afford children then don't have them. All this now seems to have gone out of the window and the prevailing view amongst the under-classes on the gutter estates is that you have kids just to claim the state benefits. What sort of a world are these people bringing children into?

mrjoker says...
10:09am Fri 3 Jul 09

"Couple: 'Our son could die without his own bedroom'"

No one's fault but your own. My 2 kids have their own problems, as a responsible parent I have to work hard to provide for their needs. Not ask the public to help me raise them. Welcome to the real world !!!!.

Lisajane says...
10:26am Fri 3 Jul 09

Totally agree with Ray and most of the other comments above. People are always on the scrounge. I have never heard such a pathetic excuse for applying for a council house. This couple are lucky to have a home provided at all. They chose to have children, and should have ensured that they had jobs, and could house and provide for children themselves before having them. Why do people of this generation expect everything to be handed to them. If you want something get off your backside and provide it yourself.

Lisajane says...
10:33am Fri 3 Jul 09

Actually Watford Observer, I am surprised you have printed this article at all. Its such nonsense and the heading "Our son could die without his own bedroom" is a joke! You could have headed it "Our son could die if he goes outside" or "Our son could die from living with his sister" or any number of situations where he could die. If the parents are so concerned about germs, then how will they cope with going anywhere with the child. I note from the photo that the parents are both tanned so they must have access to a garden somewhere!

megamum says...
11:11am Fri 3 Jul 09

A quick practical solution for the short term - if mum and dad sleep in the lounge then the kids can have a bedroom each. That should relieve some of their worries and they'll know they are doing the best for Oscar.

SadStateOfAffairs says...
12:01pm Fri 3 Jul 09

Treatment of Cystic Fibrosis
Cystic Fibrosis is a multi-system disease. The Cystic Fibrosis Trust recommends the best care for people with CF is at a specialist CF centre by the multidisciplinary team of doctors, nurses and allied health professionals.
The different ways Cystic Fibrosis is treated can be found in the following sections:

Physiotherapy - to help clear the lungs of mucus, which attracts infection

Exercise - beneficial as a form of physiotherapy and for general health

Medication - the different inhaled and intravenous drugs taken to clear mucus and fight infections

Nutrition - enzyme tablets to help digest food and dietetic information

NOTHING THERE ABOUT CHILDREN HAVING TO HAVE THEIR OWN ROOM!!

Stacy Hart says...
12:32pm Fri 3 Jul 09

No we just house all the immigrants and every other tom dick n harry other that comes here,other than our own and then wonder why there's no housing left....d'oh

Garston Tony says...
12:51pm Fri 3 Jul 09

I know I posted previously agreeing that they shouldnt be given a three bed house on the reason they gave but i'm suprised at how people have labeled them so quickly. We know nothing about them apart from their sons illness yet they've been called scroungers and lazy, unemployed and all sorts but on what basis? Not everyone in council housing is unemployed. The comment about the tan made me laugh, most of the country has a tan of some sort after the recent heat wave - what a stupid comment to make.

Wouldnt a really simple way to sort out the scroungers be to make anyone getting unemployment and other benefits do community work. They could work say four days a week with one day off where they have to go to look for work and time off the other days if they have an interview. Genuine claimants would not have a problem with this but those lazy sponging arses would actually learn that they can not breeze through life doing what they please at taxpayers expense. It really is that simple isnt it?

The Rover says...
4:40pm Fri 3 Jul 09

It seems fairly sensible that a family with 2 kids should be given a 3 bedroom house. After all, if not at this young age they are going to want separate bedrooms eventually anyway.

That said, I dont think going to the Watford Observer for publicity is going to help. If the people responsible for allocating housing at the council see this article I would guess you have just done more damage than good.

Nightreader says...
7:02pm Fri 3 Jul 09

No one is arguing that they need a 3 bed house, trouble is demand outstrips supply so those who cant provide for themselves have to wait. The issue for me is the shamless touting of their sons condition to try and bend the rules.

madmum45 says...
8:38pm Sat 4 Jul 09

i know someone who has cystic fibrosis,and he shared a room with 2 other siblings throughout growing up,he3 is now jus passed his mid 40s.so to say this child needs his own room or it could threaten his life,these people are just using their childs illness to jump the queue to a bigger property.unless they are goin to turn his own room into an isolation room ,so he cannot be subjected to other peoples viruses.then he doesnt need it.also if having to be in the same room as his sister is so detrimental to his health,do i take it they wont be sending him to school ever either,bcos those places are crawling with kids with viruses,and bacteria

cherrytree says...
10:02pm Mon 6 Jul 09

The Houseing Trust need to manage their houseing stock better.A few week ago a man was to be turfed out a couple of weeks after his parnter died as his house would be underused.There is a couple of more houses in the same road with one person living in them.Every road on the old side of the Holywell has two or more houses with one person living in them.It's time The Trust got their finger out and did something about it.Then there would be more houses for those with families.


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