Incident happened during Evergreen FC Reserves match

AN enraged father allegedly head-butted the manager of his son’s football team and beat him with the corner flag after learning his son had been dropped from the team.

The incident happened during a match involving Evergreen FC Reserves at their South Way home on Saturday afternoon (September 15).

It is understood to have begun just before 4pm after the disappointed lad telephoned his father to say he had not been selected for the reserves.

The offender, a 40-year-old man from Abbots Langley, reportedly confronted reserve team manager Dean Kingshott before allegedly head-butting him.

As Mr Kingshott was left reeling, it is reported the offender seized a corner flag and began to hit Mr Kingshott on the back.

As the brawl spread on to the pitch, players and supporters rushed to intervene but not before the victim was left with a bruised and swollen face.

The father then left the scene before police arrived but officers caught up with him on Tuesday (September 18) and arrested him. He was given a police caution for assault and causing actual bodily harm.

Paul Dunham, treasurer at Evergreen FC, said the club was investigating the incident internally and the matter has also been referred to the Hertfordshire Football Association.

He said: "It is extremely disappointing that somebody essentially not involved with the club has done this.

"We have a disciplinary committee and we need to find out both sides of what went on before taking action."

Comments(25)

andyandyandy says...
5:32pm Thu 20 Sep 12

What a great roll model. Just a caution?
Ridiculous.

The Rover says...
6:46pm Thu 20 Sep 12

Any chance of providing the name of the offender to prevent him getting involved in another local football team?

Whoever you are, you are an embarrasment to your son.

E.Coli says...
6:50pm Thu 20 Sep 12

If He had dropped a cigarette end He would have been fined £ 340

DuffmanWFC says...
7:18pm Thu 20 Sep 12

What a compleate arsehull! Your a disgrace to your Son....Should be sent down!

jasonwatford says...
8:36pm Thu 20 Sep 12

he should take to place of troy deeney in prison. His son should be sooooo ashamed

stewbyhorn says...
9:13pm Thu 20 Sep 12

Having been at the club tonight, the lad who's dad it was was allegedly allowed to play for Evergreen on Sunday????? Lets hope the club ban him and his father from football for life. For an 18 year old to phone his dad to cry that he'd been dropped is pathetic, grow a pair and do one.

pepsiman says...
10:07pm Thu 20 Sep 12

We are all getting sick of SCUM

Hornets number 12 fan says...
11:04pm Thu 20 Sep 12

18 years old and he rings DADDY? Awww diddums! Jesus Christ Evergreen should get shot of them for good. No place at any level of football for that kind of behaviour!

LSC says...
12:29am Fri 21 Sep 12

It appears he had to get to the place so had time to calm down, so the Troy Deeney 'I nearly killed someone because of RED MIST' doesn't apply.

He didn't drop a fag butt so he can't simply clog up the courts with a fine.

So I suppose headbutting then beating another person with a weapon for a very trivial reason counts as simply 'A bit naughty'.

Or in other words, Watford on a Saturday night when the clubs shut.

Reg Edit says...
7:20am Fri 21 Sep 12

There's a lot of vitriol against the son here.

The son did not do any of the beating and therefore is, from the information available, completely innocent. The son should not be banned from anything or punished, although he will probably have to move club.

No, the father did the deed and so it is he who should be the focus of your attention and take all the punishment.

There must be more to this story though, people don't just beat up the coach because their son got left out.

Some coaches are right so-and-so's, and some dads are a bit passionate. What's the real story here, I wonder?

Still, if you beat someone up you have to take the punishment.

watfordbird says...
8:36am Fri 21 Sep 12

The parent and child need to be named so that no other club will have the mis fortune of signing the boy on. At the age of 18 players have to get used to not playing every game and no way should any parent for whatever reason use violence at a game. If the parent had an issue with the manager then go through the correct way in complaining with the club or just take the player out.

stewboy says...
8:37am Fri 21 Sep 12

What an absolute disgrace this man is to football at all levels.

How are local football team managers suppose to pick a team based entirely on footballing rasons with the fear they may get attacked for dropping certain players.

He should be banned from all local pitches and grounds for 10years.

Make an example of him, thats the only way others will be deterred from this behaviour.

Norman Hod says...
9:20am Fri 21 Sep 12

I'm mates with the boy in question and he has done nothing wrong in this case, I don't see why so many people are calling on him to be punished when he has not, himself committed an offence, also the poor use of your and you're on here makes me question why clearly uneducated people feel they have a right to judge others.

jasonwatford says...
9:47am Fri 21 Sep 12

Guilty by association i'm afraid , How can any club take him on knowing he crys to his family if he is not playing and then the manager / players may have a raging idiot turn up to bash people around. They should be named.

Reg Edit says...
10:04am Fri 21 Sep 12

Last time I looked, crying (assuming it's true) was not a crime.

The boy is innocent, and you don't punish innocent people.

Ron2702 says...
10:16am Fri 21 Sep 12

As chairman of Evergreen I have taken this assault very as a very serious incident. Having been at the club for over 20 years it is one of the worse cases I have had to deal with. I am following FA guideline on discipline and have set up an independent committee to investigate all elements of the attack. It is very difficult to find good coaches and officials to give up their spare time to help organise football in the area. Dean was working as a match official at the time of the incident. A full report following the investigation will be given to the Herts FA when complete. I will also be asking the FA for guidance throughout t he hearing.

crazyfrog says...
10:50am Fri 21 Sep 12

"He was given a police caution for assault and causing actual bodily harm"

joke

Honest Rog says...
12:44pm Fri 21 Sep 12

Looks like Plod not doing their job as usual. How many days did it take them to find this low-life?

garston tony says...
12:52pm Fri 21 Sep 12

What a d*ck. A player doing that would get a life ban at least, this (I hesitate to use the word) 'man' should get banned from watching any live football anywhere.

I hope too his son is ashamed and understands this is not acceptable behaviour but there is nothing to suggest that he had anything to do with his useless fathers actions. Unless he wound him up with what he told him, but even then there is no excuse for behaving that way.

As Ron2702 said its difficult enough to find good people to help out at clubs like this and incidents when staff, refs etc get verbal or physical abuse don’t help matters.

I'd be interested to hear from the police why only a caution was given. If this had been an attack in the high street and not over football would they have done the same thing? If I'm heaven forbid ever attacked I'd want the culprit prosecuted, not let off with a slap on the wrist!

thomas.howard says...
1:30pm Fri 21 Sep 12

You missed the bust up between Everett and Cassiobury on 12 Sept. I heard the Everett manager threatened a 16yo, after their team made threats to stab the lino and opposing team members.

Nascot says...
1:32pm Fri 21 Sep 12

Reg Edit wrote:
There's a lot of vitriol against the son here. The son did not do any of the beating and therefore is, from the information available, completely innocent. The son should not be banned from anything or punished, although he will probably have to move club. No, the father did the deed and so it is he who should be the focus of your attention and take all the punishment. There must be more to this story though, people don't just beat up the coach because their son got left out. Some coaches are right so-and-so's, and some dads are a bit passionate. What's the real story here, I wonder? Still, if you beat someone up you have to take the punishment.
The story I fear Reg is the multi million £ prima donnas that footballers are today and the antics they get up to, both on and off the pitch. Unfortunately they are looked up as heros and role models and it is being reflected down at grass roots level

not a regular says...
2:17pm Fri 21 Sep 12

Not sure about everybody judging the son here.

Sure, he may have said "Dad, I've been dropped, beat up the gaffer" but how do we know he wasn't simply phoning to vent, to talk, to ask for advice?

I'm 25 and still call my dad if I encounter a situation I'm not familiar with but feel he may be able to lend some experience.

As for the father, a caution? Ridiculous that he reacted that way and disgraceful consequences from the police. What's he going to do next, stab a baby for screaming on the bus? Torch a kebab shop for not giving him enough chips?

Reg Edit says...
2:26pm Fri 21 Sep 12

Nascot wrote:
Reg Edit wrote:
There's a lot of vitriol against the son here. The son did not do any of the beating and therefore is, from the information available, completely innocent. The son should not be banned from anything or punished, although he will probably have to move club. No, the father did the deed and so it is he who should be the focus of your attention and take all the punishment. There must be more to this story though, people don't just beat up the coach because their son got left out. Some coaches are right so-and-so's, and some dads are a bit passionate. What's the real story here, I wonder? Still, if you beat someone up you have to take the punishment.
The story I fear Reg is the multi million £ prima donnas that footballers are today and the antics they get up to, both on and off the pitch. Unfortunately they are looked up as heros and role models and it is being reflected down at grass roots level
you could be right Nascot....but I doubt it.

I don't remember any premiership footballers getting their dad to come round and smash the manager up, not even Beckham when Fergie hit him on his model head with a boot and cut him.

Stick to the facts, a dad went well OTT and we don't know why. I doubt we ever will.

Very disturbing what TH says above about Cassiobury and Everett. That is far more serious and I hope was punished appropriately.

You can get loony parents, biased refs, stupid and biased lino's and mad coaches, but mostly they're fine and there's never a need to resort to violence. Better to just walk away and try elsewhere.

There are lots of good teams locally, many looking for players each year. Some bad managers lose several players at the end of the season who "have had enough" which is preferable to going over and punching him.

Nascot says...
8:13pm Fri 21 Sep 12

Reg Edit wrote:
Nascot wrote:
Reg Edit wrote: There's a lot of vitriol against the son here. The son did not do any of the beating and therefore is, from the information available, completely innocent. The son should not be banned from anything or punished, although he will probably have to move club. No, the father did the deed and so it is he who should be the focus of your attention and take all the punishment. There must be more to this story though, people don't just beat up the coach because their son got left out. Some coaches are right so-and-so's, and some dads are a bit passionate. What's the real story here, I wonder? Still, if you beat someone up you have to take the punishment.
The story I fear Reg is the multi million £ prima donnas that footballers are today and the antics they get up to, both on and off the pitch. Unfortunately they are looked up as heros and role models and it is being reflected down at grass roots level
you could be right Nascot....but I doubt it. I don't remember any premiership footballers getting their dad to come round and smash the manager up, not even Beckham when Fergie hit him on his model head with a boot and cut him. Stick to the facts, a dad went well OTT and we don't know why. I doubt we ever will. Very disturbing what TH says above about Cassiobury and Everett. That is far more serious and I hope was punished appropriately. You can get loony parents, biased refs, stupid and biased lino's and mad coaches, but mostly they're fine and there's never a need to resort to violence. Better to just walk away and try elsewhere. There are lots of good teams locally, many looking for players each year. Some bad managers lose several players at the end of the season who "have had enough" which is preferable to going over and punching him.
Nearest I get to agreement from you Reg, I'll settle for that!

G_Whiz says...
8:18pm Fri 21 Sep 12

I just think someone has been watching too many episodes of Shameless!.... Or Eastenders!

Hehe - "i'm gonna get my dad on you!"

Zola will need to get a body guard - he has dropped a few players lately!

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