Thefts have been occurring over six months

Mr and Mrs James: distraught. Mr and Mrs James: distraught.

A grieving couple have described their anguish after having flowers repeatedly stolen from their daughter’s grave.

Colin and Veronica James have been left distraught at having to replace the flowers time and time again on the resting place of their youngest daughter Kerri in North Watford Cemetery.

The 21-year-old died in her sleep from sudden adult death syndrome at the family’s old home in Tudor Drive 11 years ago.

At the time the family had been planning Kerri’s wedding and Mr James said he, his wife and their two other daughters are still coming to terms with their sudden tragic loss.

He said the repeated theft of the flowers over the last six months has caused more torment to the family, who just want to grieve in peace.

"The wife just goes to pieces," said. "She’ll never get over losing Kerri, Not that I will. It is just upsetting.

"My wife is up there every weekend. We put fresh flowers up there as much as we can and in the wintertime we put imitations.

"This is the first week we have had to seal them in a vase. It is terrible when you have to concrete them into a vase."

For months the family have been replacing the flowers without complaint - however, this weekend they raised the issue with Watford Borough Council , which oversees the cemetery in North Western Avenue.

The police have since been notified and have confirmed they are investigating the thefts.

Mr James, 63, who used to own P G Butchers in St Albans Road , said as well as the emotional toll the thefts had taken, they had also cost his family hundreds of pounds.

The Woodmere Avenue resident added: "We spend about £50 or £60 each time. My wife won’t have cheap nasty things as we want to do the best by her.

"I think half the trouble is her grave is by the woods. The ones in the open don’t get taken.

"We just want to get on with our lives. It’s not right, is it?"

Dan Phillips, a spokesman for Hertfordshire Constabulary , said: "Police are investigating the theft of flowers from a grave at North Watford Cemetery that occurred between Thursday, August 30, and Saturday, September 15.

"When thefts of this nature occur it is very upsetting for the victims and we will do all we can to investigate them.

"We would appeal to anyone who saw anyone behaving suspiciously between these dates to contact police using the non-emergency number 101."

Comments(8)

watford1881 says...
4:42pm Thu 27 Sep 12

The "people" who steal these flowers are just scum... My brother is there & I would be mad if anyone so much as touched his grave in any bad way... Hope the police catch them.. Hard to think they would really bother to spend funds on it though... It's very sad.... I would bet it's someone from the housing estate behind... Chavs....

nortwat says...
5:39pm Thu 27 Sep 12

think you should wait and find out where they are from and not blame the estate without prove .so which top estate are you from ?

watford gal says...
6:41pm Thu 27 Sep 12

It's absolutely disgusting that people steal from the graves of those we miss so much. I can only hope that there is some sort of karma for this type of low-life ! I feel so sorry for Mr and Mrs James.
But why blame the surrounding estate ? I live there, and can assure Watford 1881 that i work full-time, pay my way, and am definately not a chav or a theif !!!!!

watford gal says...
7:16pm Thu 27 Sep 12

Yes I know I spelt thief wrong ! Was thinking of the old i before e thing :-)

elaine milnes says...
8:46pm Thu 27 Sep 12

My son is buried in north watford cemetery, and has had toys and other items taken off of his grave, obviously the person or people that are doing this have not lost a child it is the worst thing a parent can go through, I campaigned to get camera's installed, all they did was put a security light on the chapel, and a park ranger walking around the cemetery, it is disgusting thefts are still happening, but should we be surprised there is little respect for anything these days, and even less for the dead,

LSC says...
1:23am Fri 28 Sep 12

This shouldn't even be about the police. The police shouldn't have to be patrolling graves.
Someone knows who is doing this. Someone is bringing home expensive flowers that they normally could not afford.
I suppose the outcome depends on how morally bankrupt you are.

Hornets number 12 fan says...
10:00am Fri 28 Sep 12

watford1881 wrote:
The "people" who steal these flowers are just scum... My brother is there & I would be mad if anyone so much as touched his grave in any bad way... Hope the police catch them.. Hard to think they would really bother to spend funds on it though... It's very sad.... I would bet it's someone from the housing estate behind... Chavs....
Presumably you mean the Rushton Avenue estate? Do you have proof of this? or are you just being judgemental?
My Mum and Dad are there but I don't smear a whole estate without any proof!

garston tony says...
10:34am Fri 28 Sep 12

A couple of discreet/hidden covert cctv camera's should do the trick.

It seems every day we hear more news that just highlights the decline in our society and the seeming rise in scum behaviour? Or has this sort of thing always happened and its just the ease or reporting it that has brought it more to our attention?

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