Family's pain as flowers stolen from daughter's grave (From Watford Observer)
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Thefts have been occurring over six months
4:00pm Thursday 27th September 2012 in News
By Mike Wright, Chief Reporter
A grieving couple have described their anguish after having flowers repeatedly stolen from their daughter’s grave.
Colin and Veronica James have been left distraught at having to replace the flowers time and time again on the resting place of their youngest daughter Kerri in North Watford Cemetery.
The 21-year-old died in her sleep from sudden adult death syndrome at the family’s old home in Tudor Drive 11 years ago.
At the time the family had been planning Kerri’s wedding and Mr James said he, his wife and their two other daughters are still coming to terms with their sudden tragic loss.
He said the repeated theft of the flowers over the last six months has caused more torment to the family, who just want to grieve in peace.
"The wife just goes to pieces," said. "She’ll never get over losing Kerri, Not that I will. It is just upsetting.
"My wife is up there every weekend. We put fresh flowers up there as much as we can and in the wintertime we put imitations.
"This is the first week we have had to seal them in a vase. It is terrible when you have to concrete them into a vase."
For months the family have been replacing the flowers without complaint - however, this weekend they raised the issue with Watford Borough Council , which oversees the cemetery in North Western Avenue.
The police have since been notified and have confirmed they are investigating the thefts.
Mr James, 63, who used to own P G Butchers in St Albans Road , said as well as the emotional toll the thefts had taken, they had also cost his family hundreds of pounds.
The Woodmere Avenue resident added: "We spend about £50 or £60 each time. My wife won’t have cheap nasty things as we want to do the best by her.
"I think half the trouble is her grave is by the woods. The ones in the open don’t get taken.
"We just want to get on with our lives. It’s not right, is it?"
Dan Phillips, a spokesman for Hertfordshire Constabulary , said: "Police are investigating the theft of flowers from a grave at North Watford Cemetery that occurred between Thursday, August 30, and Saturday, September 15.
"When thefts of this nature occur it is very upsetting for the victims and we will do all we can to investigate them.
"We would appeal to anyone who saw anyone behaving suspiciously between these dates to contact police using the non-emergency number 101."
Comments(8)
nortwat
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5:39pm Thu 27 Sep 12
watford gal
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6:41pm Thu 27 Sep 12
But why blame the surrounding estate ? I live there, and can assure Watford 1881 that i work full-time, pay my way, and am definately not a chav or a theif !!!!!
watford gal
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7:16pm Thu 27 Sep 12
elaine milnes
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8:46pm Thu 27 Sep 12
LSC
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1:23am Fri 28 Sep 12
Someone knows who is doing this. Someone is bringing home expensive flowers that they normally could not afford.
I suppose the outcome depends on how morally bankrupt you are.
Hornets number 12 fan
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10:00am Fri 28 Sep 12
watford1881 wrote:Presumably you mean the Rushton Avenue estate? Do you have proof of this? or are you just being judgemental?
The "people" who steal these flowers are just scum... My brother is there & I would be mad if anyone so much as touched his grave in any bad way... Hope the police catch them.. Hard to think they would really bother to spend funds on it though... It's very sad.... I would bet it's someone from the housing estate behind... Chavs....
My Mum and Dad are there but I don't smear a whole estate without any proof!
garston tony
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10:34am Fri 28 Sep 12
It seems every day we hear more news that just highlights the decline in our society and the seeming rise in scum behaviour? Or has this sort of thing always happened and its just the ease or reporting it that has brought it more to our attention?
watford1881 says...
4:42pm Thu 27 Sep 12